Re: Our story!

Post #3 (this was a poll – the sex club option won)

Hopefully it isn’t against etiquette for a newbie to create a poll, but at certain special occasions throughout the year I’m allowed to specifically request information about a particular sexual encounter, as opposed to her telling me at her whimsy. The rules of the request aren’t to rigid, I just tend to get a reply that tends to be more specific if I ask more specific questions, so the more I know the better. But if I ask too much, and some of it is wrong then she’ll focus a lot on that to tease me.

For example, on Christmas, I asked her about that time I was convinced that once (earlier that December) that she’d been with a guy because I didn’t get a response to my text for ages (usually a good indicator). She responded telling me how there was tension that night and it was fun but nothing happened. She had slept with him at a party less than a week later (so before I asked her) but she didn’t tell me anything about it. She did intentionally let slip some hint a few days later and allowed me to badger her for a couple of weeks and she told me more details.

Also, If I ask too much she’ll just tell me little details about each incident, or even just ignore some questions altogether.

I was supposed to get back to her this afternoon, but as I’ll be super busy at work, being off ill yesterday, she said I can have until Friday morning, and I’ll get my story sometime on Sunday.

There are plenty of options, but here are the ones I want to know the most, in chronological order (all the numbers are probably in the right region but they are speculative on my part and numbers 20+ are probably wrong!):

#6 – Sometime between Sept 2008 – Feb 2009: A really old one but I know so little I didn’t even know what to ask. I’m sure something must have happened because she’s hinted at an encounter during her gap year before university. She had just turned 18, so going out drinking must have lead to something! It was before me though, so it’s not as exciting but I’ve just not known for so long!!

#25 – May 2012: She was studying abroad in continental Europe, and naturally they have erotic clubs there. She’s strongly hinted that every time she’s been to this particular club she’s had sex. I know about her other two times, but I’ve never found out about this third time. It’s pretty hot because it’s sex in public!

#26 – June 2012: A guy on tour with her sport’s team. One of the guy’s sports club at university, the one I played for, always toured with a girl’s sports club, her team. I wasn’t there for this tour but there was a lot of rumours flying around about her and this guy. I’ve always really really wanted to know if this was true or not, but I kinda know all the details already if it is true and if it’s false then I get nothing, so it always feels like a waste when I want to ask.

#32 – Aug 2013: There are a number of times when she went travelling last summer when she went silent for a night. A few of these were more suspicious that not. Particularly her birthday night (she was in Australia otherwise I would have gone to visit her). I think it’s really probably she did something on her birthday, but I don’t want to ask and get a negative response. I could ask about a few of the times as a blanket question but then I’ll get very little detail.

#34 – Sept 2013: One of only two guys I know she’s brought back to our new flat. They other one is now her boyfriend, this was just a one night stand. I heard them at it, but I don’t know the exact details or his name (or even if she knows his name). I want to ask because I’d like to fill in the details, but it seems best to use this opportunity on something entirely fresh.

Thanks for voting!!

-Proud

P.S. Forgot to say, I will post the details of the encounter here as thanks for the help!