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    Know what feels good to you and go with it.  You don’t have to use others’ labels to identify yourself.  I find that once I started thinking in terms of a label, e.g. submissive, then I feel like I have to keep working to conform to it even though it may not apply in many ways, then it becomes more like a rule for judging yourself.  So not very helpful, in other words.  I also find the need to be open to my self-image changing.  Some days I enjoy feeling like a cuck, some days I don’t.