Re: A New Family

Thank you for your support and comments. And to those who pass through reading, we’re all open and ears to anything constructive we can pick up from you.

We have had a whirlwind of a season, most of which I can’t really divulge here. Needless to say, it has tested the bonds of our marriage, our love and everything we can think of, and then some. And right now, Alan and I are about to leave for a much-needed one-on-one vacation for the next few days, followed by a one-on-one vacation with Jeff next weekend, after whichI will be going off of my birth control and conceiving the last member of our family with Alan.

Reality will always push you further and harder than you ever think, and it only makes it that much more important that you choose your life and stand for it. We have been pushed to arguments and tears, but Alan and I are stronger and more solid than ever in our marriage, love and friendship. Jeff and I have become more knowledgeable and understanding of each other, so our romance and relationship has blossomed brighter than ever. And all of us with our children, it’s so much happier than I thought possible.

My husband, Alan, is not a beta husband. He is every bit the equal of Jeff, but wants me to have the experiences and life I can have with other men, and now, namely Jeff. And we have found ways to integrate him into our family so that our children accept him as better-than-an-uncle.

As things are now, we decided not to have Jeff in our master bedroom, keeping it as sacred ground. And, in fact, it was at my insistence, and Jeff has no qualms about it. But, we are now in full pda in front of our children. Not that we are vulgarly sexual in front of them, but he has surprised me with a few french kisses when the children are home.

We are in a good place, but it is still important that I make solid, personal time with my men and remember where my place is in all of this. Thank you, and I will share more soon.