Re: Part 1. My cuckolding story

@Luvr said:
I feel it’s important to note that any time a boyfriend suggests the wife should leave her husband he should be kicked to the curb. In this case I’m guessing he has no idea that the husband is supportive of what’s going on and simply assumes that the wife is unhappy in her marriage and looking for an escape plan. This is precisely why all wives must be open with someone they date and make sure they understand they are being invited into a marriage and not being invited to replace it.

There’s really little debate to be had over whether she can have a boyfriend or not – she already has one. Having a boyfriend doesn’t and shouldn’t be a threat to the marriage, however. When it is – when his perception of things leads him to believe he’s welcome in coming between husband and wife, we have a big, big problem. The weight of fixing this is on your wife’s shoulders.

I think I read that a wife’s boyfriend should never conflict with the marriage from a a previous blog, and i think from Luvr or maybe another blog.  After i read that i actually mentioned it to my wife along with other rules.  I am confident that nothing and no other man can ever pull my wife and I apart.  the problem is, around the time when all this started, my wife and I had lived separately for a while, we had a lot of issues at the time.  in a weird way cuckolding may have had a role in saving our marriage, it made me appreciate my wife even more.  cuckolding reminds me to never take advantage or take my wife for granted.  My wife has since made it clear to her previous lover that she will never divorce me.  he moved on and found another girlfriend.  so i’m not sure if they will see each other again. 

I do agree with your comments, my wife should be open and honest with the men she dates.  she doesn’t completely understand the whole cuckolding thing or understand how i enjoy it, i haven’t been completely open with her.  it felt too strange  for me to tell my wife that i want her to sleep with other men cause i get pleasure from it.  she thinks i just like to compete.  she knows that i want to be the best guy that she sleeps with, and she only meets other guys to find competitors.  if cuckolding ever becomes more prominent in our life then i’ll definitely have to discuss more openly everything with her and tell her i really enjoy every espect of what she does.