Re: New obsession

Hello, i don’t think all cuckold marriages have to end with problems. Many don’t and husband and wife become very much closer together. This certainly happened for Sarah and i and i don’t think we regret for a single moment our lifestyle choice. It isn’t just about sex and desires but about creating the space in which all three of us in a relationship can express ourselves. Both Sarah and i are quite submissive and bringing a dominant man into our marriage allowed Sarah new experiences and ways of being that she couldn’t with me. It allowed me to be truly submissive in my marriage and it allowed Michael the opportunity to express his sexual dominance. The secret is open communication. You have to be honest with each other, but you also have to communicate with your wife’s bull or lover. If you are just interested in threesomes there are many to be found on the swinging contact sites but a cuckold relationship involves so much more. It is lived 24/7, is as much mental and emotional as it is physical. Every one in the relationship has to give of themselves such that the space is one in which all three can freely express their feelings, wants, desires and needs and know they will be treated with respect and dignity.

There is a lot on the cuckolding sites about humiliation. i can honestly say that i have never felt humiliated or threatened by either Sarah or Michael. My life has been enriched and i certainly hope that that of Sarah and Michael has been too. The rewards emotionally for me have been very great. Sarah has given me a wonderful gift which is to see her develop as a woman in ways i only ever dreamt of. There are simple examples in every aspect of life. i could ask Sarah to wear certain clothes, to dress in a flirty or provocative manner and she never would. Michael simply told her to do so and she would without question or demure. It is in our genes. Michael is alpha and i am not. Sarah responds to alpha and not beta/gamma.

i hope this helps. Keep talking and take care to meet the right man. Michael left last summer for a career move to another country. Sarah and Michael decided they couldn’t sustain a long distance relationship and we all parted on good terms with promises to meet up when we can. It’s taken us nearly a year to find a new balance and before we both feel the time is right to find someone else to share our marriage with.