Reply To: Hotwife’s FWB visiting for 4 days three nights

Hey, that’s awesome your wife’s FWB is visiting for four days! I feel you on the excitement and nerves—my wife’s got four regular bulls and a body count over 80, so I’ve navigated similar vibes. Here’s how I’d handle it:

Marital Bedroom or Guest Room? I’d suggest the guest room. It keeps your marital space special for you and her, especially with your kids around. It’s a respectful boundary while giving them a comfy spot.

Privacy or Watch? I’d ask to watch, maybe say, “I’d love to see you two, if you’re okay with it.” Never seen my wife with one of her bulls either, but asking gently keeps it open. Respect their choice if they want privacy.

Outings or Tag Along? Give them space for most outings like the beach or bars, but join for one low-key thing, like a drink. Balances their time with your involvement.

Have a quick chat with her before he arrives to share your excitement and set expectations. Keeps things smooth. Let us know how it goes!