Cuck or Not to Cuck

Your wife is indeed gorgeous and sexy, thank you for posting a video of her here. There are a few things I’ll say in response to your post. Most married couples that are successful with cuckoldry have been married for some time, in many cases 10+ years; that gives them a very strong bond. There’s nothing wrong at all in entering the lifestyle after being married for a relatively short period of time, but just give careful consideration to the potential implications. You also mention a mutual friend would likely be the one to ‘do the deed’ – I just err caution as that might come back to haunt you. My advice would be for the other guy to be someone that can’t have an impact on your future life, e.g. a stranger. You ask about respect, a very important point – providing you are both clear about where the boundaries lie and respect those, the other will/should not get hurt. If you have cajoled her into this, and afterwards tell her it was not good for you.. you will lose massive respect in her eyes. As for playing with fire.. indeed! For most married woman adultery is a massive wall that one does not easily cross – if you help her over it she’ll be in a place where she can fuck around without consequence, make sure you can handle that

Sage advice from Mercator.

I would add that the risks are largely yours to control. It’s your marriage and your relationship so any threats to it are yours to identify and manage. That begins with managing them before they happen. What does that mean? It means making sure any guy she’s with knows that he’s an addition to the marital relationship, not a replacement for it. This can’t always be expressed before a wife becomes a hotwife, but it can and must be communicated afterward as soon as possible.

Generally, if this is something exciting for you both, even if for different reasons, it’s not much of a threat to your relationship after the fact. The overwhelming odds are you’re both going to love it. You may have a less than stellar experience with a particular guy, but the idea of her being shared outside your marriage will still be an enjoyable idea. It’s not unusual for couples to take a break from this for a variety of reasons, but once a couple enjoys this, it’s generally going to be part of their marriage moving forward.

Don’t be afraid of her forming bonds with her bull – that is, the bull becoming a boyfriend. This is something to be celebrated. The bond isn’t the threat – allowing it to come between the husband and wife is and that is primarily the wife’s responsibility. She does that by being aware of what behaviors may be risky and communicating them to her husband so they can be assessed. If need be, we are always here to assist in sorting out these issues as well.

Best of luck to you both. It would be lovely to get you verified as a couple and even featured so we can all track your progress into the lifestyle. Contact me directly if you have questions or further concerns.