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      Ephraim

        My wife and I are in our late 50s, married for more than 20 years.

        I have dreamed for years of sharing my wife with other men.  This year, we started talking about it more seriously.

        Gradually, she became more intrigued with the idea.  It was a big plus for her self-image when she discovered how many men were eager to have sex with her.

        For this and other reasons, her sex drive has increased tremendously.

        Lately, most nights, she has been chatting online with a self-described black bull, experienced with couples, who has helped her discover her submissive side.  He has taught her a lot.  We are going to travel to see him in a few weeks.

        But last night, we met for dinner with a guy we encountered on a swinger site.  Not a bull, but a boyish, attractive guy in his 40s.

        After dinner, he suggested that we go to a hotel for play.  We hadn’t expected this, but after a while, agreed.

        So we rented a hotel room, and he had sex with my wife while I watched.  I joined in briefly at my wife’s request.  Toward the end, I left the room, and gave them almost an hour of privacy.

        This was her first new cock in more than 25 years.  He wasn’t especially skilled, and everything was vanilla, but my wife had a FANTASTIC time.

        This made me very happy.  I thought I might have to struggle with jealousy or mixed feelings, but that didn’t happen.

        We are now even more eager to meet our dominant bull, a couple weekends from now.

      • #11706
        Kristin

          We now have a steady bull, and find it much better,it allows the dynamics between all of us to develop.

        • #11707
          Luvr
          Keymaster

            Congratulations on having made that journey from fantasy to reality. Making room in your marriage for another male to take on a sexual role (and perhaps leadership role) is very intense but also very rewarding when a couple is ready for it.

            You will likely still struggle at times with the intensity of emotions as your Dom’s influence on her and your marriage becomes more apparent – just remember to communicate.

          • #11702
            Ephraim

              Tonight, my wife will get her first-ever black cock, and I will be there to see it.  We are both thrilled.

              He claims nine inches.  That’s almost twice as long as me, and probably well over three times the volume.

              She and he have been texting (sexting?) back and forth for days now.

              She originally proposed doing this as a birthday present for me, but now she is much more into it than I could have expected or imagined.

              We are closer and happier in our marriage than we have ever been.  One reason for this is that she no longer has to hide her dissatisfaction with my small penis.

              She also has asked and received my blessing to play on her own.  She wants to do BDSM as a submissive.

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