tyler durden
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    my lovely wife and i have been married 15 faithful years. we have three super kids and are socially active in our church and community. I ,for some

    unexplainable reason, have had the fantasy of seeing my wife sexually involved with another man. This goes against everything i've been taught,

    monogomy and fidelity. I dont have any interest in being with another woman and I know she would completely object to that, but for

    some reason I think she might be willing to enjoy another man. Its diffcult to explain it to her when I dont understand this myself.

              In the past we joked in our conversations and  asked eachother “would you ever…….” ; so I asked her would she ever be with another

    woman, her reply was a quick “no”. The conversation escalated and I asked her would she ever be with another man , she paused and said  she

    “doesn't know”. I asked her what would be the most promiscuous thing she would do? and I suggested “how about two guys?”, surprisingly she said

    “probably.” She quickly recoiled with “I don't know” and suggested that I want to cheat on her and the conversation fizzled. I stressed that

    wasn't the case at all. We've not spoken about the topic since but thought has still stuck in my head.

              I plan on bringing up the topic again since she seems to be very sexual lately, but I want to  do it in a better manner. I realize this isn't

    some thing thats decided right away. I at least want to “plant the seed” right and let the thought grow. Sorry for the long post.

    Your thoughts, comments appreciated.

    cheers !