Reply To: When her boyfriend controls our sex

When Jezz finished his post with . . .

Does it work to a formula-I think not! There are doubts, back tracks, pauses, diversions, but for many, the true cucks and hot wives, they find a way to this separation of roles, the ascendency of the alpha couple. The submissive instinct finds a new route-hotwife to bull, cuck to hot wife and an equilibirum emerges. Scary emotions Rally are the norm and healthy. You realise the import of such a change. Its not something that longer term is a game, its a chosen lifestyle. You would be crazy not to have doubts, not to ponder this carefully. So much depends on emotional intelligence, hers, the bulls and your own. This is so different to social norm living from the past. As the Cat Steven’s song went, ‘take your time, think a lot, think of everything you’ve got, you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.’ Be clear about the dreams then.

. . . it really hit me hard. When she relates to someone else intimately this way, she is looking for something that she is not getting from me. Saying that it is because he has a bigger cock is probably a rationalization to some degree or another.

She is bringing in a third hoping to get what she wants/needs without breaking up our pairing, but again as Jezz points out, “So much depends on emotional intelligence . . .”

I guess all three of us have to adjust to being in a trio instead of a duet with nothing carved in stone and sex is only part of it, which can be exciting and scary for everyone, . . . but I’m the one getting more cooking, cleaning, and laundry to do! haha