Reply To: Bull and wife on vacation together?

I spent a weekend away with my bull a few years ago after a lot of talking with cucky about it. In retrospect I think it was too early for us in our evolution to have taken this step. Whilst I enjoyed the experience I know that cucky struggled with the emotions of his wife having ‘normal’ time with another man – it was too much like a relationship instead of the cuckold dynamic.

Much later I was on a training course for work and had to stay in a hotel in the midlands of England for 5 nights. My bull was able to join me there for the evenings and we spent each night in bed together. However the dynamic was very different from the weekend trip. Firstly I think it was because we weren’t socialising together but rather working during the day and coming together for the night – so not unlike a usual meet in many respects. Of course the fact that we were together 5 nights in a row was unusual and I did find that by the end of the week I was not only a little sore but also the novelty had worn off a bit. I was also very tired after a few nights of late fucking and early rises. So for the last couple of nights we actually went to sleep fairly early.

In my everyday lifestyle I have a mixture of evening meets and ‘sleep overs’. About once a month, on a week night, I’ll spend the night with my bull at his place, leaving from there in the morning to go to work. This has a very different feel to the meets where we only have a few hours. It’s more relaxed and not so rushed to get our clothes off and into bed. I feel more valued by my bull on these dates and closer to him. Sometimes an evening date can make me feel like ‘used’. The sex is ok but there is something missing – it can be a bit mechanical.