Reply To: Does submissive mean, sissy?

I have been in a cuckold relationship with my wife for the last three years. And I must admit that being a cuckold has made me more submissive, or more appropriately i have always been submissive and being her cuckold has bought it out and reinforced my submissiveness. In the last year i have left my job and have become what can appropriately described as being the house husband. Even though it took me some time but with her guidance i have now become quite use to doing all the household chores, from cooking, cleaning and laundry. But she does also help me its not that she just leaves it all for me to do, she is actually quite an understanding partner. My wife has strings of lovers but only special ones are invited to our home, and when they are here, I guess i am very lucky in the sense is that she really enjoys me being present when she is with her lover. Also even though she took some time to get used to it, but now enjoys me serving her and her lover. She likes the fact that I am always looking to entertain her lover, by getting the drinks or seeing if he needs anything (Nothing sexual). Also preparing the bed for them, and her favourite part is me cleaning the bedroom and changing the sheets after he is gone. I have been in chastity for the last six months and this is something also which she was skeptical at first about but has come to really enjoy now. She has also a very submissive streak in her and so I understand and appreciate it is sometimes hard for her to be the DOMMEE for me. The thing I wanted to ask this forum is that, we have not engaged in any dress play, even though in bed we are more like lesbian lovers, as our sex is more oral then anything else. Though she still loves penetration from me and I am not completely excluded from that. I have sometimes indicated to her about my interest in dress play but only vaguely, but i have realized she has no interest in it. And as any submissive I do think that my pleasure will only come if it arouses her. But there is this fantasy in me to engage in some sort of dress play like being in a nightie when her lover comes over and i am in the guest room and in my cage. I have thought about going to bed in a nightie. I have not shared it with her as I still don’t think it is something that arouses her, she has always told me that she loves to see me naked in my cage only sleeping in the next room when she is with him. But this fantasy of mine is not going away, I do not know what to do, should i bring it up again? or just let it be my own dark fantasy as she is not into it.