Reply To: Advice on getting started

though that may well work with a decent percentage of women its not a full had to play. some will think if you want her with another guy then you cannot possibly love her and she wants one man alone.
those women are the ones that will cause relationship problems if we push in that direction. here a more gentle approach is needed to ‘test the ground’.
if we start with conversation on subject as say a subject you found online and have been looking at..what do you make of it ? etc
we can dip toe into subject but not let on we want to get into scene.
only the hubby will be aware is she’s indifferent . interested or very anti or even shocked. that said its also easily possible for almost any female to be seduced by right man. all females for example find alpha males attractive in away.women love an absurd confident and decent looking guy. if they were a uniform or are famous or rich .that signifies power . powerful men are very very stimulating for women .if they show them attention ..especially if hubby has bene taking them for granted. the sudden interest by a man can just be the spark that unites that sexual hidden drive.
never easy for most but given right circumstances e.g. mixing with men .women can almost always be not only tempted but seduced. women also have emotion aspect and do form bonds in most cases with any guy they have intimate relations with. hubbies can get sidelined etc . there are always risks when we involve anybody in a females emotions etc as well as health and family etc where we seek discretion. however for those men whom desire cuckolding it can be a huge turn on and magnetic draw. not all go past fantasy stage. good luck to those that venture . rewards often go to the brave. if we can get a wife to chat to others ( men) online we have potential for further events . if we cant even get wife to chat ..we may be batting a lost cause. never give up hope . slowly slowly catchee monkey as they say.