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My interaction with Stacey’s lovers is mostly indirect. I help her make decisions on who to link up with whether we are surfing date sites on the web or in a social setting where she wants to meet somebody new. I am able to veto a potential lover but once she’s taken him I have no say in the matter. I have met nearly all of them over the past 40 years. I am only involved briefly – when she is screening a potential lover in a public place. So after drinks or dinner I’m dismissed. I am not allowed in the room when she has sex. I do listen often – my imagination runs wild. I have watched her being seduced in a bar or in the back of our car with me driving on several occasions. Nothing turns me on more than sitting across the room in a public place and watching a potential lover get her worked up. And I’ve accompanied them to our hotel suite and watched them make out in the elevator and room before retiring to the bedroom. I’m not allowed to say anything – and I generally try to be invisible.