Reply To: Falling in Love

I can only give you a some feed back based on our past experiences and because I am unconnected and not engaged in your events. However these things always come down to individuals so you and your Hotwife are best to judge what is transpiring and where it should go.

It may seem very quick to be making such emotional statements to each other however there is always significant excitement in a cuckold environment and a euphoria to any lustful relationship. It can get translated quickly into such a way of thinking so it cannot be dismissed. Love is many things to many people and has several phases in my opinion, the first full of lust and desire as we have all probably experienced with our wife’s when we courted them.

Should we assume you are also engaged with the Bull, as in you have meet him and he engages with you. Or does he know about you but has never meet or interacted with you? Your Hotwife has a responsibility to try and disengage herself for a moment and make some clear headed decisions as to where this is going, what she wants from the relationship with her boyfriend and discus what you want and how it effects you. If she is able to think this through and discuss it with you and continue knowing the aims and objectives as a cuckold couple then why should you not then both embrace the dynamic as it develops. First agree it together. Any solid cuckold marriage will then be very fulfilling. If one party is not happy with the aims then both of you need to decide what is more important!

Seeing your Hotwife falling in love with another man is the ultimate angst for a cuck but can be acceptable to some / many cucks as the ultimate aim (it is in my case however much it hurts to watch the sweet pleasure of Her happiness). You have to have great trust in your wife to manage this and to ensure as some say, he is “always her boyfriend but she is always your wife”.

Be careful not to get unbalanced emotionally otherwise you may well pollute your own cuckoldry experience and make it one she does not want to repeat, therefore discussion, balance and level headedness is need even if cuckolding is an emotional high for us cuck’s. Any decent LT relationship has with another man should have strong element ts of attraction at a physical and emotional level otherwise they are not relationships in the full sense, but one offs which work for some people and not others. My point here is that a cuck must accept that LTR with a Bull should reflect the emotional maturity and warmth of our wife’s because that is who they are and with whom we have fallen in love with. Good luck