Reply To: Being #2

Yes, you should position yourself to be #2 sexually, but decide where you can position yourself as #1 non-sexually. You don’t provide much information for anyone to give you help beyond something just general like I just did.

Are you the submissive in the relationship? Does her boyfriend live with you? Is there anyone else who lives with you (children, etc)? Are you a sissy? Who controls what in this relationship? Is your wife dominate with you? Is her boyfriend a Dom?

Include anything else that will help us to help you better.

Gracie