Reply To: WIFE WRITING 4: LOVING YOUR HUSBAND AND YOUR BF

For me the red part of the rectangle that strictly belongs to my husband is that he has always been stable. He is very sweet and genuine, and very easy to get along with. And we have always been able to be open and honest with each other about everything, without judgement. We have a connection on a different level that I don’t get with other people, in the sense that he gets me and understands me fully. He is always there for me: supportive and caring. He is my best friend, my twin flame, my sister type that I could never let go of. That is the portion of the rectangle that is specifically his. which is the “different” way of love. However, like my graph indicates, the bf offers a larger portion of the rectangle on his own, as well as much of the same things that the husband offers. And I imagine this is a common feeling for most wives.