Anonymous
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    As he was saying all of this, I saw my fiancé smiling and shaking her head in agreement to what he was saying. I felt a large burden lift off my shoulders, and when he was done, I again thanked him for that reassurance and stated that that is all I want. I do not care how much my fiancé loves him, even if she loves him 3 times more than she loves me, as long as there is a mutual understanding and protection for the marriage. Our friend shook his head in agreement and my fiancé then spoke and said “don’t worry, [him] and I talked a little after me and you talked the other day. I thought you might have a little bit of worry about some things still and so when I saw [him] the next day I too wanted to clarify some things with our arrangement. We agreed that if at any time either of us felt like it would damage or hurt the marriage that we would need to end it. So yes, we are all on the same page, and want the same thing.”