Reply To: Friends to Show us the way

never an easy area. trying to do best for a daughter and protect her and keep everything sort of confidential can be difficult.
we need to possibly think about bringing him into contact as a ‘friend’ of you both and he just giving her a lift to meet others? with time she. will learn he is a ‘special’ friend and not a threat to family life , just an addition . some have used dancing. instructor or personal trainer etc .
trying to reassure her another man not displacing daddy in home. later we. will have to have a mum /daughter chat and explain life is more complicated than simple just having a husband do everything and its nice to share things like chores with others.
we need to say nothing is done without all being. happy and acting as adults. One day she. too may find just one man not fulfilling enough and every couple has right to own choices in life. good luck.