Reply To: Friends or strangers?

Sometimes it seems a good decision to go back for her to a previous lover. Both know what they had together and it is easy to connect from there.
Just a few month ago an ex lover of my wife put himself into the picture again. To clarify the situation of the past a bit better. My wife was very much in love with him and he moved in to our place after he spend 6 month every weekend with us as her Lover. We lived for another 3 years together and my wife had in those 3 years many times the desire to get pregnant.
I was against it because of my Job. As I would have looked into a crystal ball in this time, I faced a job transfer which was the reason we had to move pretty far. My wife was somehow crushed and it took her one year to get over it and started a new relation with another guy. But she never developed with him more than a profound sympathy.
Now this guy, her big love, turned up out of nowhere with an e-mail suggesting to spend a week or so with my wife somewhere.
My wife strictly refused. She went through that pain of separation from him and was not willing to face that again. In her words: If he wants to see me he can come to us to visit. But I will not go to bed with him.