Re: A serious problem I face as a cuckold… Please advise ..

Those are two very difficult problems and I really feel for you as you try to work them out.

Perhaps the lack of sexual interest on her part could be medical? Does she take any medication that might be inhibiting her libido? You might also try couples counseling—perhaps there is something in her distant background that is interfering with her interest in sex with you. Are you working out, trying to stay fit so that you can serve as a physically active partner in the sex act? Also, giving her a long backrub, building up gradually to a more sexual point over an hour or so might help revive her interests (think of it as a kind of foreplay), particularly if it becomes a regular part of your sensual time together. Of course, I don’t know you or your situation, so perhaps you’ve tried or considered all of these things already.

As for the cuckold issue, her falling in love and dropping you each time she’s stepped out with another man—it sounds dangerous to me, if you want to keep your relationship alive as a reciprocal loving entity. I do understand the pull of the cuckold fantasy, but maybe it should remain just a fantasy—at least for now, until she can work out her own issues. You could always live out some of the same domination, role reversal and humiliation thrills via enforced chastity. If you don’t already do it on a 24/7 basis, you may find that chastity will reawaken her dominant side over the course of some time, and who knows what else it might reawaken with some luck.

Good luck to you and your wife.