Re: Can an old fantasy be revived?

Thank you Luvr and mjsocal, I guess I needed to hear from others to validate what I believe is the case. I also know it is overdue, but it has been so long since it was brought up, and due to the sexual frustration that she feels due to lack of quantity and most importantly the quality of sex between us. I'mnot sure how to bring it up with out her thinking I have other motives. I most definitely will be seeking your advice on how to move forward, but I don't think I can bring her to the site yet, as it would “scare” her off, and I think I would have to wait until we had had more then one conversation about it, and she was a least thinking about really going ahead with it.  Your correct, in that I really do belive she loves me, but our sex life that was never really great for her, and after having our child, and not being able to even feel me anymore, I don't think it is fair to her that she should have to be unfulfilled because I am not able to do the job.

Luvr, with your help, I hope to get there soon.