Re: Confused

Hello again M.  I can’t help but take notice again at how much your situation is the “ideal fantasy” for some would be cuckolds out there.  It literally seems like your wife and her boss have chosen you to be the whipping boy in the relationship and it may seem strange now but a lot of us are envious of that position.  My wife takes regular pleasure in reminding me of what I am missing and her lover is enjoying.  I know there would be more to it if he were into what your wife’s boss was doing to you.  I think if you are not sure how to react or what it is doing to/for you, then maybe sitting down with them for lunch and finding out what they want may help.  Even if your initial reaction is to get up and walk out…don’t.  Just listen to what they have to say and go home and think about it.  The humiliation is part of the play in and of itself.  She loves what it does to you..that is why she asked you why you didnt respond to the boss’s SMS.  I guess you have to think about what you are willing to do to keep her in your life now my friend.  I can’t help but think how lucky you are even if you don’t yet realize it…