Re: Couple Looking for Advise

I had a few more thoughts to share just to give you two an idea of what to do now.

I do think Shiloh should continue dating this new bull she has. I say this because she’s done her best to include her cuckold and has never demonstrated behavior that is destructive to the bond of trust necessary between a hotwife and her cuckold.

The only real boundary, or limit, a cuckold couple needs in their lifestyle is to ensure that their behavior as a couple and as individuals, and the behavior allowed by the bull/boyfriend/Dom is never permitted to come between them and so far, that’s seems very much the case for her.

With the above being true, yet Joseph behaving otherwise, Joseph is guilty of saying, through his behavior, that he doesn’t trust Shiloh (or their relationship). I don’t believe he actually feels this way, but his behavior says that for him.

Shiloh should still date. Her cuckold should have a role in helping her get ready, her cuckold has a right to hearing from her at least once during the date. Her cuckold cannot txt or call her without an emergency or having been texted first and then my only reply once. How they reconnect when she returns home is to be discussed and decided ahead of time to prevent her cuckold from taking the upper hand by force. She should get to date her new friend until and unless she simply doesn’t find doing so appealing or something happens/fails to happen which undermines the relationship between her and the guy or between the couple. Without such an event, the cuckold has no basis for standing in the way.

I look forward to discussing formalizing these rules for you two so you can proceed.