Re: Denial

Interesting point – formalize what is presently unformalized. She has begun to ask about how to more fully express and share – and yes, arouse me with what we’re doing. I’m not really into humiliation type of behavior as in comparing him to me or belittling me and more importantly, she takes no pleasure in that – but I am incredibly aroused at her pointing out and emphasizing what she gives her lover and what she denies me. Perhaps the 48-hour rule could also be something she’s comfortable with using as a way to keep me aroused. I should probably add that in the past – after our weekends away where I’ve gone bare with her, that upon our return and before she sees her lover – both times she’s douched before she sees him – an act which really turned me on.