Re: Denial

@stevej said:
What is most different now is that it is her that wants what we are doing and she’s no longer hesitant or shy to say it – she’ll now say clearly “I don’t want you to cum in me” instead of what she would say back then which was “he doesn’t want you to”. It’s incredible to know she’s turned on by all of this.

It often takes having someone in a more dominant role in the marriage to help set an example for the wife and empower her to become comfortable with a dominant role. Initially most wives are far more comfortable with the idea of denial as something the boyfriend insists on, which is why I introduce that idea and take responsibility for the denial as well as the expectation that she take that time to enjoy teasing him without guilt.