Re: Genetic Propensity

I am not an evolutionary biologist either but I have graduated in social science nas psychology some time ago. The views you express are the “nature v nurture ” debate which has raged in psychology for decades without conclusion. There is absolutely no doubt that people are influenced by their upbringing , how could they not be, we are influenced temporarily by watching a movie of pure fantasy. We are also to some degree I believe social animals maybe to a high degree therefore we may have social leaning genes within us i.e. survival stratagies based on getting along with others and even possibly situations where some are leaders and some are followers. All this would be very difficult to prove as a poper test group would need to be set up and last a liftime on a desert island to even begin to satisfy the requirements of such a test. I am surprised your wife has used survial of the fittest in these terms as the term in pure biological language refers to survival of the fittest genes. Fit genes and non fit genes vary depending on the natural challenge. As an example if the atmosphere were to change to a degree that there was a bit more oxygen than normal if that percentage killed 80% of the human race but 20% possessed a gene which could cope the 20% would survive. They are not as such fitter just luckier. However if the atmosphere did not change no one would know. Circumstances can make the alpha male he may have been rejected by some woman and hurt therefore descended into male company and was generally dismissive of females. Some competitve females may want to tame him just because they can. My view of cuckolding is that it is a sexual fetish for those who like sexual entertainment. Some peope think it is morally wrong to be sexually entertained and others are disguted by the idea of the same.A number of folk howeve have discovered the highs they can achieve by using the bodies natural hormones and so on to create pleasure. We were most likely not made to do this. Once you accept you are happy to be sexually entertained then lots of things follow for some it is undewear fetishes, for others male feminisation and for others cuckolding with loads of other things in between.However cuckolding is a fetish within a fetish and those who actively pursue fetishes are quite in a minority of the population. Taks thissite for example, google cuckolding and there is a good chance this site will come up, and this is global a potential viewing of hundreds of millions of people. Yet there are very few on here at any given time. That should indicate just how far into the minority this activity is. The cuckolding we talk about here tells nothing about human behaviour and not even that much about trends in sexual entertainment. If I were to hazard a guess I would say cuckolding occupies less than one hundredth of a percent of the human population’s thought process. I do know however that those who have been cuckolded, like me for real, will search every site available to find an answer to their unanswerable question. which is ” why did she do it ” when they really know she fell in love with another man a proces sshe let happen as she were not committed where she was or she had a low sense of direction and forward planning or she really did not love the man she was with. Yes it is comforting to think it was your parents fault as your dad was not alpha enough and so on but it isnt true women can love gentle submissive men just as much as arrogant alpha males love is different and very pleasant to be on the receiving side of. It is even less understood than cuckolding and much more available effecting nearly all the worlds population at one time or another. Therefore when you loose it or never had it you really have lost out as large numbers of people are in pleasant love with each other for lifetimes. In conclusion cuckolding for real is not good and cuckolding for entertainment is just that but beware you are using something potentially very supportive and loving extracting that from it in the search for the high of sexual entertainment.