Re: Help! . . Am I doing/saying the right things?

There’s an ebb and flow of our wives sex lives.  Weekly around work and weekends, monthly around her natural cycle, yearly around holidays and vacations.  Kids and school affect them, other family and their problems affect them.   As the hubby in the picture, we are sometimes too closely involved to see the pattern.  All we know is that she is, or isn’t, as sexually active at some times as she is at others.  Maybe we can free her up for more special time with her other man/men.  Take the kids camping for the weekend.  Offer to do the shopping more often.  Look into a maid service to take over some of the household chores.  Have a talk with her mother about giving her some space.  Buy her a week at the spa.  The idea is to free her up to be the  sexual creature that you know she is.