uxorious
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    This is a tough question…it's hard for anyone to say without having detailed knowledge of you, your wife, and your relationship. But it seems like a back to basics approach might be productive. Maybe try a casual conversation about sex and fantasies, or ask her what she thinks about when she masturbates. In my experience it's all about making sure she is relaxed and comfortable before you start the conversation.

     

    Hope that helps!