Re: In praise of Emily

Great stuff Matt! I would agree that Em is instinctively a dominatrix. She hasn’t worded it yet, but as sure as hell she is off down that road. I wondered whether your wife was clear about dominance in her make up or whether that emerged over time with you. Is this a discovery thing? My guess with Em is she is understanding what power can give her. Providing that James remains completely consensual she would be inclined to take him a very long way. And that is the point really as regards what I do consensually with James. A bull enters into a relationship but he cannot guarantee the outcome or the exact direction. So i have to be honest about my preferences too. She is my girl- and my needs are in the mix as well!

Jezz