Re: In praise of Emily

This interview is for all those curious wives out there, those who wonder what it is like fucking with a bull in front of your husband. I reckon its important to get the female perspective on this, to explore briefly the feelings and the sensations. Emily said she was happy to help and hope it seems of interest.

Jezz: So do you like fucking with me in front of James and if so, why?

Emily (laughs): Well you know that I do, because we do it a lot. I like the intimacy of it, being with two men, watching you control my husband and feeling at the centre of things for you both. Now, but not at the start, I enjoy the way that this humiliates James, but that is something that has evolved. I’m by no means sure that humiliation is quite such a big thing for other couples.

Jezz: some women could feel used, as though they were a performing seal or something?

Emily: Perhaps, but you are there for your own pleasures. If you turn your husband on then that is sexy too, but I think that you must be honest with yourself and say I want this man and I insist on having him.

Jezz: Is that attitude more common these days?

Emily: Yes, and for an obvious reasons. Women are more powerful. We often out earn our husbands, we may own the property, so we tend increasingly to make the rules. We have started to see sex in a different way, not like men do as a series of thrills but in terms of behaviour that cement sexy possibilities in the head. Women can think of a dinner as sex, dating as sex, we don’t lock sex in the bedroom. As we’ve started to explore what we like, so we start to insist on controlling sex. If you have a compliant husband then you are very lucky, because your explorations can go so much further.

Jezz: so how do you go about this, the threesome sex I mean and what seems important for the lady new to this?

Emily: Well, its preparation. You don’t come to this until your husband is used to the idea that your lover is already fucking you. He is obviously excited by the fact that you are cuckolding him. You’re sure that he is compliant and will do as you and your lover says. Alright, he has his special word, the get out clause, but if you prepare things right he won’t consider using it. I used to masturbate James a lot, talking about how you touched me, kissed me, teased me, so I was always associating the talk of you with pleasure in his cock. I was heavy on the rewards back then, encouraging him to want more of this.

Jezz: And on the evening itself?

Emily: Well, the atmosphere has to be perfect and for us…as you should know…that’s about candles and soft lighting, but its about the way you dress so that your husband knows that you want sex, but just not with him. I wear a lot of boots because that is James weak spot (laughs). I think I could make him do anything if I am wearing the right boots. I like to involve him in dressing me. This is a ritual at first. It is a performance the first few times. It becomes natural and casual a lot later, when he has watched you fuck with your lover a good deal more.

Jezz: Do you talk a lot in preparation?

Emily: Yes, about my pleasures and needs, what you will do to me, but remember darling that this is our humiliation thing. James needs a big dollop of that! For other women I guess the talk might be more about mutual pleasures, the sights, sounds and smells, the delicious wickedness of breaking conventions and having threesome sex. I think it helps if you feel that you are being daring together. What is very important is rehearsing attitudes though. I think the husband needs to understand what you and your lover will expect. I would say that first time he should co operate in a very active way. He can be made to witness in the corner later. At the start its good to have him feeling he has a purpose.

Jezz: Can you give an example?

Emily: Well yes. You remember that I used to tell James that he was my cushion, behind my head. He was to lie sideways on the bed, with my head on his tummy. It was a good start position, because he could watch you thrusting inside me, he could reach and play with my tits and he could kiss me to show his approval of what we were doing. Hd felt very close when you and i involve him in that way.

Jezz: Is the more advanced co operation then?

Emily: You know there is you oaf! Later…honestly girls, much later, you can get your husband to take your lover’s cock out for him, to hold it steady when you lower yourself onto it. But that is advanced stuff and way before you have your husband suck bull cock. Start modestly.

Jezz: So I arrive and we kiss at the door, how does all this feel knowing that your husband is watching?

Emily: delicious….wanton…..wicked…..really really privileged. You think how many woman don’t have one relationship where you have two. You kiss your lover and shyly look across at your husband. To see the arousal in his face is such a big thrill. It is so steamy to watch his face change, arousal, longing, pangs of jealousy and doubt. You can rub all the worries away, but that can come later. Right now you are the siren and you will get your own way!

Jezz: Kissing is erotic isn’t it. It really fuels the arousal.

Emily: I think when I open my mouth to you and take your tongue inside it is a very intimate submission. I am shorter than you so I am looking up. To James it looks the complete submission, the presenting of my body at some deer rut or something. It is so important. You should kiss your lover, not treat him as a cock machine.

Jezz: We fuck in all sorts of places don’t we, but would you recommend the bedroom first time?

Emily: Yes…there is more room there. The bed is a platform for your fun. If you have a big bed there is room for your husband there as well as your lover.

Jezz: What about foreplay?

Emily: That is important and before you undress too. If you rush to undress then its all too mechanical again. No one in a seduction waits to pet until, after all the clothes are thrown off! You have always fingered me beneath my skirt, inside my jeans, and James knows and expects that. My clothes smell of you, my arousal, and he loves that. We are going to take our time with this and it is going to be both rough and playful. So you need a start up act, something that makes the evening arousing.

Jezz: Good idea to have husband undress you?

Emily: It can be, but some husbands are paralysed by all this the first time and have always fantasized by being powerless to stop your lover undress you. I think that you have to read the psychology of it. I like it when you undress me. If James undresses me it is at your instruction. I like the fact that you make him pull boots back onto my feet. Its a way or rubbing his nose in it and working with his fetish.

Jezz: So how are things feeling at this stage?

Emilly: Mmmmmn-lovely! But it won’t be like that at the start. I guess most women will be very anxious. This is the point of no return. You can’t pretend that your lover didn’t fuck you afterwards, that it was just some crazy dream. Its important now that the bull is assertive, that he continues to touch and kiss you. If he is skilful he is talking to the husband all the time, allowing you to simply submit. You concentrate on your own pleasures. What did you use to say to James?

Jezz: Are you seeing this man, do you see how her skin shivers? Hell man, her cunny is so steamy, I can feel it tightening on my fingers.

Emily: Yes, how could I forget! You reminded James that I was eager for this, that he had unleashed my appetite. That’s important. My cunny sucks your cock, it grips it. James used to talk about that afterward with this far away look on his face. Its arousing for me too, but if you stop to think about it, this involved James. He was expected to watch and to comment. You expected him to talk openly about his feelings and urges.

Jezz: We used to let him wank more then!

Emily: Yes, we did and it was good wasn’t it. I liked the way stroking himself enabled him to admire what you did. He was like your partner in some way, making a sexy scene.

Jezz: key question then, what is it like when the bull takes you first time…when he pushes inside you?

Emily: I’m not pandering to your arrogant, inflated ego my friend, but yes, it’s great! In my case I had James teasing my nipples with wetted fingers and your cock full shaft deep inside my sex. It was, and always is still, utterly blissful! Its wonderful though because you know that your lover fits, that he can take you deep. You have already climaxed on him before. He has taken you to heaven and back. If you don’t know that, if the first time is this time, in front of your husband, then you could panic!

Jezz: So bull is thrusting away- how do things seem and feel then?

Emily: Well, if you are holding your husband’s hand you grip it hard. He needs to know how hard your orgasm is and he needs to know too that you want him close too. Remember that you are losing it at this stage anyway. When you are fucked by a big cock there is always that journey to delirium. Before you get there though, you look at your husband and see how turned on he is, how mesmerised he is. If you doubt yourself, and some do, you might whisper, ‘you wanted this…you wanted him to fuck me!’. I know that sounds like a caption on some porn picture, but women do say it. Its a way of deflecting blame. Look, I can’t hep myself on this cock. I will soon be his. But remember how we got here!

Jezz: How much does husband figure as the fucking progresses?

Emily: Increasingly he doesn’t! You abandon yourself to it. Its the moment where you are instinct…you’re not sensible, you’re not nice and you’re certainly not conventional. You just want as much of this cock up inside you as you can and your head is swimming with the dirtiest thoughts.

Jezz: Such as?

Emily: You egoistic bastard Jezz! You sure this is for the blog? Well…OK, about getting pregnant by the guy, fucking in a park with him, shocking friends by explaining you have a husband and a lover. Its the pandora’s box that you unlock because you’ve got a husband to help manage all the adventures.

Jezz; Its pleasurable?

Emily: That is an understatement. Its simply brilliant. He is fucking you, rough and hard and your husband is submitting to his conquest. He is winning, taking you, and you feel so squirmy hot because he has this passion for you. You want to trigger it again and again and with you that’s easy. I do what James also needs and i keep putting my husband down.

Jezz: No tricks?

Emily: No tricks that first time- just full on, balls deep sex. You can learn to suck cock, to take a load down your throat or up your botty later. Right now, it is the fact and your husband is there, staring wide eyed at it.

Jezz: The bull ejaculates hard- how does that feel?

Emily: You always feel it-because of his girth, because of his balls jerking against your bottom. With you I feel pressure in my tummy. I might kid myself about this, but i swear I can feel your cock head lurching about inside me. If your husband is small, or doesn’t hold an erection well, you will NEVER forget this sensation. It weds you to the lifestyle like nothing else.

Jezz: and what does this trigger?

Emily: expletives! You shout and you swear, you gasp and you groan. If you faked it with your husband before, all is revealed now. Fakes have nothing on this. As you know, I go multiple a lot of the time, but this isn’t scoring points is it. If you have never had an orgasm before and you have one now, well, its branded in your brain. If you have a deeper orgasm, the sort that make your tits tingle, you never forget.

Jezz: That wrecks a husband right?

Emily: Yes

Jezz: You don’t care?

Emily: You can’t care. You’re not in control right then. You are hooked on adonis cock and you are having the hottest sex ever.

Jezz: Do you care later?

Emily: yes you do. The sense of success, relief and gratitude are huge. Its as if the weight of the world has been tipped off your shoulders. You don’t have to be nice anymore. You are a bitch, so live with it. You find your husband’s face and you kiss it all over. You tell him how warm, and sexy, and considerate he has been…and you still have your lover’s cock throbbing inside your quim.

Jezz: Some would say that is wicked?

Emily: I would say it is consensual, that it is honest and that it is liberating. If I’m honest, woman with any drive and intellect, with a half decent body, so look for this. Marry for companionship and fuck by instinct.

Jezz: And afterwards, sloppy seconds?

Emily: or some husbands yes. If they have licked you out before. if they have tasted their own spunk and understand all that. If not, then having then wank over your tummy is sexy too. Its wasting their spunk when your lover’s has got elsewhere-even if it is latex covered.

Jezz: What does being licked out feel like?

Emily: Like being a pharaoh-like being the goddess, so in control, so sensual and so wanton.

Jezz: Run out of questions now!

Emily: So I should think. I need a drink!