Re: making it happen

It seems to me that there is a big difference between meeting with a guy who you (two) have met on line, but never face to face, and a situation like the one you proposed. Naturally the former situation would almost require a meeting of all three of you to make sure everyone is comfortable. But in the situation where she already knows him and is interested in going to bed with him, she can handle that herself. In fact it might very well blow him out of the water to have you there. As long as she is honest with him about what is going on, I don’t think you should feel so left out in this particular situation. Just hope she is playing this ‘above board’. Good luck and try not to get totally consumed by it. Keep a little perspective so you don’t drive yourself crazy (lol). Mat