Re: Many Questions About Cuckolding

The short answer to your question is yes, there are many varying degrees of cuckolding. Each couple has their own needs. In your case, it could be said that you are sharing her from the position of authority, rather than the position of submission, which is the true cuckold role. This means that you would be leading her into enjoying other men and she would look to you as the figure of authority or leadership in this adventure. For cuckolds who share, they are not in a position of leadership in the experience of sharing her – and happiest that way. Your wife may well respond best to you being the one to establish the setting and the boundaries. It could continue this way or, you could find your perspectives change and grow with new experiences.

It's entirely possible that your sex life is very good and that there's little lacking in you performance; this, too, is a bit of a false stereotype. The analogy I often point to is that most of us have a favorite ice cream flavor – we can always have that ice cream and enjoy it and when asked, we'll choose that as our favorite, but that doesn't mean there aren't any other flavors we enjoy or could be curious enough about to try. If it's good, fine, add it to the list of flavors I enjoy – if it's not enjoyable, no problem, I always have my favorite – and my list of flavors I also enjoy. Your wife simply needs the opportunity to enjoy some new flavors.

Stop by and chat sometime – we'll discuss in more detail.