Re: Need your advice/opinion

You need honesty, trust and communication – but you need these for all solid relationships, not just a cuckold one!  i guess the difference is though, you really need to have these things if another man is giving your wife an orgasm……This will become apparent very quickly!

Just like all relationships, cuckolding is a journey and its not always smooth.  You will each experience it in different ways and our experience is 2 steps forward and 1 back.  It’s still like that.  Don’t forget that you need to find a “third”too and he will have his ideas and needs too, not always be reliable, etc, etc…Luvr is not representative of most men you will meet in their understanding of a cuckold relationship.

Don’t be fooled by what you read on internet porn sites – these are mostly written by men to arouse other men as a business – they don’t necessarily reflect our version of cuckolding and i suspect many others too.  Our version is caring and loving, a relationship where everybody’s needs matter.  Nobody is abused, humiliated or made to do anything they don’t want to do.  Other people will have a different view and that’s fine – there is no definition or ISO standard here – just grown-up people making grown-up choices.

As for big cocks – well all things being equal I have never met a woman who did not enjoy a big thick cock now and again.  She might not want to marry the guy it’s attached to, but that doesn’t mean she can’t enjoy the feelings it can bring.  Personally, I wouldn’t choose to share my wife with a guy with an average cock – she deserves better, but i totally respect her right to make her own mind up about that.

So be brave I say.  Talk to your wife.