Re: New obsession

Okay, I know it takes time.

To the cuckolds here that suggested this lifestyle to their wives, how long to get her from fantasy to reality? I know it is going to vary but I really thought things were progressing quickly for me (guess I thought I would be special) and still she is reluctant to move forward.

I would love suggestions, tips or pointers that might help. It is still (though not as frequently as at first) a hot source of pillow talk. Her ex is still her favorite fantasy man for these sessions and sometimes we go weeks with only hand jobs for me, which is hot for me and I maybe more into the denial then I thought I would be.

The conversation gets sour quickly when I bring up making it a reality, so I try (which is becoming increasingly difficult) avoid bringing it up. I am at a point where I am thinking about giving up before it becomes unhealthy (if it hasn’t already).