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Welcome, and congratulations on taking a big step in cuckolding. After talking to several other couples in the cuckold lifestyle, it seems the first step is when the boyfriend/husband gets the desire for cuckolding. The next step is the girlfriend/wife attaining the desire, which can sometimes take awhile after she learns that her partner wants to be a cuckold. Once she desires cuckolding, it can progress quickly. At this point you should be talking to her about this frequently to establish any rules or boundaries so that neither of you feels uncomfortable and you are both confident that cuckolding will enhance your relationship and not harm it. There are many flavors and variations within the cuckold lifestyle, and the two of you need to discuss what will thrill each of you the most, what your limits are, and how you see things progressing in cuckoldry over time. After that it will be time to seek a Bull or several Bulls. Good luck! ![]()
