Re: noob cuckold here

Between a rock and a hard place springs to mind. I think you’re right to have some anxiety issues. It’s understandable for a wife to be a touch coy when embarking on such a relationship but she has had her lover for a while now with your knowledge and really ought to be a little more understanding of your position. Your co-worker is having his cake AND eating it whilst you are effectively ostracised from your wife. In the bedroom department at least. Some would say that you should roll over and accept your role as the supportive, loving cuckold husband who remains in the background but as your wife knows that the cuckold lifestyle you have in mind, one that gives you kicks too, she seems to be blussfully ignorant of your needs. That’s something that only you and your wife can address together. If she loves you she would at least cool things off until you reach a mutually beneficial scenario? If not then I personally think that you should be taking a good look at your future together. Marriage is a two way street and you’re the only one moving.

You both have to take the bull by the horns (no pun intended) and get the cards on the table. I can only see your situation worstening with you being pushed further away. Be brutally honest with her and I would like to think that she will be forced into being brutally honest with you.

I wish you the best of luck with every step you take.

cuckmatt