Re: Our “hotwife path” up till now. Pls advise what’s next

This has been very helpful… My husband and I have been together since high school.. 30 yrs to be exact… We started exploring alternative lifestyles about a year ago..through a swingers site. We had a couple of play dates and lots of conversations. We’ve discovered that its much harder to get the female partner of relationships to buy in to the swinger life. Our interest in hotwifing developed as an outcome from  some threesomes and the fact that couples were hard to come by..(translation..husband. wasn’t getting much action) my husband confessed that h

When watching me with these other men he had mixed emotions.. Dismay and jealousy but also lust and desire… We have found that he likes to hear about my dates (I’ve only had a couple) and is horny as hell when I get home.. I’m a little unsure on where to go from here…because he’s had these varying feelings I’m hesitant to be too descriptive but then he says he isn’t “getting anything ” from the arrangement.. How do you know if hotwifing is something he really enjoys and what can we do to I sure that we booth get what we need out of the relationship. Thanks