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It was indeed my wife who posted on this thread matmagic99. There has been a twist in this adventure of ours though, I am somewhat sad to report.
On Friday evening, my wife and I were simply watching a show on the TV when I turned to her and noticed that she was visibly upset. When I asked her what could be the matter, she explained that the cuckold fantasy was going to have to remain just that. A fantasy.
Without a doubt, our plans had been moving forward very swiftly over the last week. Too swiftly it seems. My wife had very much been caught up with the whole cuckold concept and she admitted that she became very turned on by the prospect of becoming a hotwife and enjoying the fruits of such a status. But as the time grew nearer to the moment of truth, she was growing increacingly nervous and doubtful about the whole thing. Her doubts were out-weighing her excitement and she called the whole thing off.
Of course my heart sank but then, what kind of a husband would I be if I were to carry on and endeavor to persuade her to carry on against her wishes? Not a good one. Of course I immediately comforted her and gave her my support for her decision.
This site has been so very helpful and extremely insightful to us both. Not only does it cater to the men in this world who wish for their women to sleep with other men but also to the women, going into all aspects, beit positive and negative. I urge everyone who reads this to make sure they read the entire guides laid out on this site by Luvr. Don’t skip any sections that you think may not apply to your situation. They ALL apply potentially.
While I am of course disappointed about me and my wife’s circumstances, we have already found the silver lining to the dark cloud. We have other turn-ons which we will now put more effort into. Anyone with a cuckold fetish will undoubtedly have other fetishes also. Ones that may have lead to cuckolding being THE fetish of choice. If like us, your cuckold dream has to stay a dream, don’t let that spoil your bedroom fun. It doesn’t have to be that way. Just make sure that you communicate often and honestly with your other half. Communication is VITAL in all aspects of cuckolding and any other fetish play. Who knows? Maybe the planets will align in unforseen circumstances? If you have been over this site with a fine toothed comb, you will be better prepared.
Enjoy what you have and communicate, communicate, communicate and then communicate some more.
Thanks for reading.
Matt.
