Re: So near, yet so far.

Ok, it’s been sometime since I last posted on here so here’s an update on our situation.

After a bit of a lull in our cuckold journey, my wife has picked up the pace again, albeit a sliw pace but as the saying goes, Rome wasn’t built in a day. Her plan is to do things her way which is although not your usual route, one I feel could ultimately lead to the more usual way. Stay with me while I explain.

My wife is not a sociable person as a rule. Something that would put the skids on any plans of enjoying the company (and more) of others. So having spent some time getting to know a Dominant on twitter, plans are afoot to have this dominant as a friend with benefits. The candidate is bit of linchpin in the BDSM scene in our region of the country and has already helped my wife by encouraging her to attend a fetish event or two which she has done. My wife will be having a on-to-one meeting with the guy tomorrow evening in order to discuss details of their needs and to confirm that there is a connection between them. From there, if things go to plan, a “play” meet will be arranged. How has my wife come to this line of thinking? I’ll explain now.

We are both submissive by nature but over the last year, my wife has taken more of a Domme role within our marriage but she still has submissive itches that need scratching. My wife has her own fetishes which I have been unable to oblige her in less and less. Mainly because I am so far out of my comfort zone when attempting to do so. So the FWB can sate her BDSM needs and thus (hopefully) allowing her the ability to concentrate on on dominating me more effectively.

The question of my wife taking the “benefits” to the limit is still unanswered. She knows that she me has my unreserved blessing should she want to indulge in sexual activity with the Dominant but from my standpoint, I can only liken it to a man going to see a Professional Dominatrix for his kicks, although sex is not on the menu in such circumstances, it’s about as intimate as two people can get without being in a relationship together. The contradiction to this is that there will be no money involved.

It’s looking more and more likely that my wife is going to getting rude with another man. Not in a way that I initially hoped for but it’s going to open a door. One that I hope will give my wife the confidence to enjoy others and so making me a true cuckold.