Re: So near, yet so far.

Thanks for the words of encouragement Luvr. I think one of the 1st things I need to do is to have her take a good look around this website. A hell of a lot of information and advice will be so helpful to her.
Very soon we will be having a weekend away for her birthday and she has told me that for this weekend, she will be swapping hats and being my sub. I will make a concerted effort to bring her all the things that she craves as a sub. Humiliation, CP, tease and denial, some bondage and orgasm control. In previous discussions she has told me that if I should wish to make her my slut/hoar, then she will comply. I will have control of what she wears and how she behaves. I think that this opportunity will present me with the chance to bring in a 3rd party. Perhaps to sate her exhibitionist streak. To be made to perform in front of another man? I know she would be willing to go that far at the least. From there, I should be able to guage just how much further she is willing to go. I will strive to ensure that the voyeur in question is better endowed than myself. In the heat of the scenario, my wife may end up in a position where she actively wants to experience the larger cock and thus, acting in a slut-like manner. I will be in the perfect position then of making a judgement call about how much further down the road of becoming a hotwife she is willing to go.
I think it could be the tipping point for her and us as a couple.

Regards,
Matt.