Re: Symbol of a hotwife

If you want something special, i.e., something not commonly thought of, then you’ll not be using the symbol appropriately since only you two will know what it means. The whole idea of wearing something publicly to declare her sexual availability is that men recognize it for what it is and understand that her anklet with the H  W charms means hotwife and trumps the wedding ring she also wears. Simply wearing an anklet without charms, for example, is safe, but says very little since for many women, an anklet is simply an anklet and has no other meaning. If she’s planning on a necklace, I would still recommend the charms be added to it. I would also recommend that the chain be longer and that she make a commitment to not hiding the chain when worn.

Of far more importance than jewelry worn is the rest of her outfit. Adhering to the hotwife dress-code is important not only for expressing a hotwife’s sexual availability to other men, but also to express that to her husband and herself as part of the mental and emotional changes that come with expanding the marriage in this way.