Re: The Biology of Cuckolding

Exploring the mental social and emotional perspectives of cuckolding is good and welcome as we are mental emotional and social creatures of nature. What we are not are wolves, birds, or even our closest cousins the great apes. Oversimplifying evoloutionary biology will get us all nowhere. The main reason being the lack of studies into the private sexual behaviour of human beings, which I am sure all will agree apart from cuckolds and swingers most people keep these issues very private.Many folk also have well established religous beliefs as to how people should behave sexually, and they are quite entitled to these. Apes and wolves can be studied in the wild. Humans rarely operate in the wild state. In fact the state we operate in mainly is one of subdued observance of societical rules and regulations. We are rule governed creatures. Therefore the study and interest in cuckolding as a phenomena must be carried out against the background of where we are mostly.Marriage is a rule based institution created for the benefit of society. There is nothing wrong with this. Long may it last. However just carrying out ones duty is not always the way to happiness. And, yes, face it there are a lot of sexually unhappy marriages, and yes there are a lot of really happy marriages where both the duty and the sex and the affection can all be found in the one area. I stand by what I say in that I believe when the marriage or partnership is compatible in all areas sexually and social cuckolding is unlikely to insue. However when a socially satisfying but sexually unsataisfying marriage occurs affairs may happen. In this case cuckolding may be a good fix. This site is good by investigating the various shades of this and perhaps helping the idea take root to help marriages. However not all marriages are suitable for cuckolding and while there may be some evolutionary case for it that case may have been lost half a million years ago.It would be exciting to think there is some underlying wildness just lurking under the surface of the suburban housewife. Given the site of a well cut cock she will become feral instantly rejecting her husband as she drops to the floor in awe at this magnificant creature in front of her. This alpha greyback to fill her with his wondeful seed.The small cocked wonderman who has actually supported her for years and has been very successful in survival in the urban technological jungle need not fear as it is not his fault his cock is small, the door has been opened to the wild outside and he is no longer of use he must just fulfil his natural subservience to the great one. Everyone knows that is nonsense the situation when it does happen is pure fantasy and is a bi product of that great thing human imagination. Psychologists have studied our capacity to be imaginative and artistic which lies in our ability to create alternative futures. This is a proper biological consequence of having a big brain in fact so big it causes problems at childbirth as the infant has to turn to get out. Now that is biology at work.

So lets have fun, this is poetry in action, this is performance art , the woman becoming the whore slut displaying herself for the slave master or whatever other fantasy we may have. When we do this we trick our brain into thinking all the other biological evolutionary stuff is true. We tell ourselves it is true in order that the beain release pleasure chemicals which relieve stress and so on.

But what is not true is that there is any evolutionary basis surrounding the size of a mans cock and his ability to produce children. I have a smallish cock and produced four wonderful children two lawyers another who obtained first in philosophy and a doctor of physics. My wife selected me before she saw my cock as did many other women before her and some after.She also deselected me for another man before she saw his cock. So whatever it is cock has nothing to do with it.

I am sure the ladies reading this will concur that there are other physical qualities of a man which are attractive to women such as gait ass shape height hair or no hair chin or maybe just wearing a suit.

However some women will risk all just for a bit of attention and some men are good at giving it even those who can give outside their own home. The man who had my wife was married and didnt get on with his own wife yet my wife loved him in some ways. Cuckolding may help the woman gain that attention outside the home and be less hurtful for the husband in some ways. Also fun.

So I conclude as long as we stay off the biological nonsense unproved and untested and may never be, and stick to the social emotional and artistic areas of cuckolding all should be well.