paulpaulpaul
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    Hi, as someone whose wife had a two year relationship with a lover I can honestely say I would have loved them to have gone away together for a weekend etc. The thought of my wife being thoroughly enjoyed and enjoying herself in the proces,s without me hanging around is brilliant. It’s a great gift to be able to give your wife time to be herself and maybe do things with her lover/bull/som – whoever it it, that she would feel inhibited about doing at home or in your, the husband’s, presence. My own wife was always a little inhibited when I was watching or joining in, and preferred to be on her own with her lover. I think she still has fanatsies to explore and enjoy without me being there – maybe too embarrassing for us to sit and discuss over breakfast or even to know about? not sure, but, I am sure if she finds a new lover I will encourage them to go off for nights or weekend’s etc together. It’s also the height of being cuckolded for me, not knowing exactly what and where it’s happening. To be wondering what they are doing, how they are doing it, what she’s submitting to etc. So long as the lover/bull/dom whoever, can be tursted and there is no danger of the marriage beaking down, then it’s a great thing to do.