Re: Understanding Myself As A Cuckold

Yes it was a powerful start to our relationship. I vividly remember the shock as she told me, in the middle of a heavy petting session that she had given herself to another. Shock and confusion for a moment and then the most incredible arousal that I couldn’t possibly hide. My tongue was hanging out and I had the strongest erection. I didn’t need to spell it out that I was actually really proud and pleased. She got the message loud and clear and it was pretty much accepted between us from that point that she would be making love to any man she wants.

We are very much together, for a number of reasons their relationship came to an end quite amicably. I would be very happy for her to have another lover but for her its very much about the right man as it is much more than just sex with her. She still misses her mate, especially sexually. Of course he is always going to be a big part of our life.

I believe its  more than collective unconscious as I understand it. I feel part of my cuckold nature is my ability to empathise, resonate with, and feel what my wife is feeling, especially around love and sex. It is much more than getting off on her making love with others. I have very often physically experienced her arousal even when she is far away in another man’s bed, I’ve learned to recognise the pangs of desire, increasing arousal and most incredibly penetration and orgasm. I have been woken from sleep exactly at the point he has entered her. Other times I’ve been at work and just about doubled up as she reached orgasm. It is this that makes it such a satisfying lifestyle for me. I actually do feel much closer to her as I am not thinking about myself at all and can focus on her. she has become so much more open about her sexuality in response to both of us. I feel incredibly priviliged to have experienced this intimacy that I guess many men never know.