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Pretty much the same with me. I found sex to be disappointing, not that I didn’t love sex, I would enjoy the build up, feeling her tits, fingering her then licking her. The problem was I would ejaculate soon after entering her and sometimes before I even managed to enter.
I could masterbate for ages, but for some reason penetrative sex has always been the same for me, even with previous girlfriends and other women. It has ended loads of relationships, I would meet girls, date have foreplay, sometimes weeks would go by, before we sex, but they would very rarely meet me again after the first or second time.
I met my wife at work and on our second date she let me feel her tits, she was far more adventurous than most of the girls I had been with before and was happy to remove her panties and open her legs for me to look at her sex. I couldn’t resist, but to lick and taste her wet pussy (she later told me that not many guys had licked her and she was opening her legs for me to fuck her). I couldn’t get enough of her pussy, it was so wet and looked smelt and tasted great, as I fingered and licked her she had an orgasm that soaked my face. She later told me that I was the first person to make her orgasm by licking her, she then asked me to fuck her, I fumbled in my jacket to find a condom, but she said she doesn’t need that as she is on the pill.
I entered her while I was kissing her, but as I got to full penetration she said “fuck me hard”, I had never had a girl instruct me during sex, and I started to cum.
I knew she was disappointed, so I went down and started to lick her. As I licked and fingered her she had a massive orgasm. She later told me that when I came so quick, she thought that would be the last time she saw me, but when I licked her that was the one thing that made her decide she had found the right guy.
Up until that point although she had sex with numerous men, very few had gone down on her, and none had given her an orgasm while licking her.
We had been married for 20 years when I found out she was having an affair after I got over the initial shock I found it turned me on and encouraged to keep meeting him. She admitted to numerous affairs, even before we got married. I have agreed she can meet anyone she wants and prefer it if she tells me, but she doesn’t always.
For me, sex now lasts days sometimes, I get so horny preparing her for a date, then waiting at home knowing she is getting what she needs or the rare occasions when she brings a guy home and I get to listen to them and sometimes join in. I will try not to cum before she has finished as I enjoy licking her and even bought a chastity cage a few years ago to prevent me ejaculating. This leaves me in a permanent state of arousal and she enjoys the freedom to have as much sex as she wants.
We have now been married for 34 years, so we must be doing something right. The sex isn’t as frequent now and a lot of the time she will tell me about her past while I use toys or lick her, but when she does meet a guy she gets just as horny.
I realised a long time ago that I would never be able to satisfy her with my penis, even some of her bulls can’t do that and has frequently enjoyed group fun. She still says that I am the only one that can provide her with oral pleasure as very few of the guys she has met even go down on her.The only guy that has ever managed to not only get her off with his cock, but also his tongue was a black guy, but he could also be abusive
