Re: Wife Having Lover’s Child

@bazram said:
Can’t advise on your particular situation but my wife and her lover did decide to have a child together. From my point of view this has been wonderful. I loved being a dad from the moment she told me she was pregnant and I love the fact that she has given herself so completely to her lover and denied me (we have no sexual contact at their request). It wasn’t what I’d planned but it seems a very natural culmination of cuckold lifestyle that I enjoy so much. for her it was a very natural development of the loving relationship she enjoys with her alpha male. Race isn’t an issue for us (she’s part asian and we are both white) but I don’t pretend to be the biological father and don’t look alike.

I struggle a bit with your last sentence. to my mind the decision must be theirs. Your part is in dealing with what they decide. Best wishes with whatever happens next.

 

bazram,

thank you for telling me your story and it is nice to know that i am not the only one who has to accept this in his life. you are absolutely correct, as a submissive cuckold i should just be told that she is going to have his child and my opinion should not have been sought, but that is something she has decided to do herself.

she has given me until the finish of her next period to express my opinion and i think that she already knows what the answer will be from me, otherwise she would not have asked it.  but we are where we are and i need to get my head around what it will be like if i say yes, which i probably will now.  i still need to think though, and any further advice from others on this site will be welcome.