Re: Wife is having Lover’s Child

If your wife wants to marry her lover you simply have to accept that you will be breaking the law. But, who cares? They can go off to another country that has less stringent requirements, or perhaps officials that will take a bribe, and get married. The perfect place is Namibia. Arranging a wedding in Windhoek can be done in a couple of days and there are very loose requirements regarding what documents have to be presented.

As far as your situation is concerned, I admire your devotion to your wife and your acceptance of your new daughter. My wife is different. I don’t know how many times I have had to buy the morning after pill for her. Finally, I made an appointment at a clinic to have her fitted with an IUD. The truth is that her lovers really just want to use her for sex and, whether or not she became pregnant from fucking them, is of no concern to them. They would simply walk away. Heidi may have long-term lovers but they are not the type to form a deep relationship with her. They are all married and have other commitments.