cuhlman
@matmagic99 said:
You always seem so articulate, caring and sensitive, but that is a double edged sword. You are heading down a very unusual path and there are always a lot of ‘haters’ around to spew their venom. You’re going to have to steel yourself to the opposition to your lifestyle. Hopefully your plusses will outweigh your negatives. I am sympathetic to the cuckold lifestyle, but have no interest in doing what you are doing. But I’m rooting for you. Mat
Hi Mat,
Thanks for your kind comments and advice. I have been accessing this site now for almost a year and until then I thought I was just another husband with an unfaithful wife, I knew I was a cuckold but I didn’t realize that I was in a ‘lifestyle’. The truth is that Carol has cuckolded me for 10 years now (we were married in 2003) and it was only nearly 4 years ago that she started seeing one man regularly – Onye. Basically she fell in love with him and decided that it was time that I knew that she had a lover; even though I had often suspected that she was going with other men it came as a shock nevertheless.
I had to make a choice between leaving her or being a cuckold; the first was unthinkable so I decided to embrace the whole thing and keep myself ‘in the story’ so to speak. I cannot say that all has been wonderful but I am used to it now and I feel good knowing that she is fulfilled by her love for him and the child she now carries. So I guess I am in a ‘lifestyle’ after all.
It is an unusual path, but not so unusual as to be unheard of; there are plenty of men out there, knowing or unknowing, whose wives have had another man’s child and who have accepted the fact.
I am far from alone in this!