Re: Wife Lacking Confidence

Thank you all for the responses!

Englishcuckold, I appreciate the response, though I don’t think your suggestion would work well for our situation. We enjoy our sex life and are not looking to be pressured into forcing the issue… I feel this approach would only cause friction and tension for us both, but perhaps for others it would be a more fitting suggestion. 

Useajohnny1, it’s great to hear others have found themselves in similar spots. I haven’t tried suggesting using any sort of dating site… I think that may come off as a bit odd to her, but at some point an adult chat room might be more up her alley. 

Cucken, thanks for the compliment on the topic. I’m glad to hear this is something of note to more than myself….Perhaps we can work together to put together a list of ideas to help our wives boost their confidence. I’m sure others will have thoughts as well! 

I’d like to start by revisiting something we’d tried in the past, where we simply enjoyed a dinner together at a pub. My wife dressed up for the occasion (nothing too fancy) and we paid special attention to any looks other men gave her and talked about it afterward. It seemed a very safe step in the right direction at the time without any pressure to interact beyond simple glances and smiles… it may be worth us trying again. 

Thoughts? and thanks again!